Dear Readers:
I recently dated this intelligent, attractive, tall, very
blond woman. We went out twice, but the last date went downhill fast, starting when I picked her up at her house. When I tried to start my car the alarm system went haywire, blaring loudly and causing me to frantically attempt some intervention. I couldn't turn it off. The next thing I know a cop is shining a flashlight in the windo
w asking me for ID. He thought my date and I were stealing the car! He asked me to get out and show him my registration. I was embarrassed and pissed. But more pissed because he was checking my date out. He let us go, but the damage was done. We then went to see the 7:30 show of
Borat, which I loved. After the movie she made up some lame excuse about having to work tomorrow or something, so I drove her home.
I never felt like I connected on any level with this girl, yet would like that
opportunity. A few days later I called her and left a message asking her if she wanted to meet up again. It's been a week and she still hasn't called me back.
Here's question. Should I pursue her more? Don't women like men that are aggressive? I've heard so many stories about women not liking a guy UNTIL they pursued her, showing how
committed he was to winning her love.
Thanks.
George