Relationship Rx

hey george
lemme know what u think of this..its about pick up lines..and sumthing women ALL over the world deal with!

http://totaltrauma.blogspot.com/2005/10/pick-up-lines.html
 

George
I have been friends with this guy for about 5 years. It is the first time in that amount of time that we are both single. We used to see each other once every couple of months or so. This week will be three weeks in a row we have done something. And before that was within a month.

At first it was normal. Hanging out like we usually do. A few thoughts crossed my mind, but I didn't want to do anything to jeopardize our friendship.

Then one time we were watching a movie at my place, and drinking. We ended up fooling around a little bit.

I have seen him once since then, and it was back to hanging out as usual, but with in a week instead of a month or two. And at the end of the last night, he told me to call him this week and we would hang out again.

Should I be reading further into this then just a drunken night? Or is the Fact that he wants to see me more often a sign that maybe things will go in a new direction with us. Maybe it was just easier the night we were drinking to loosen up.

I did call him, and he called me back that night and we made plans for tomorrow.

What do you think? Should I be excited for something more? Or should I just approach this as a friend who wants to hang out more?
 

Dear Anonymous:

I'm curious how it turned out with your friend. If you feel comfortable, please share your update.

Thanks,
George
 

George,
I am single and I have a friend who has been trying to rationalise and prove that i should love him. A few days back i met him and he said, make a choice, either you can love me or don't talk to me.I told him i dont love him and he asked me to walk out. Later he wrote this in his mail,

i remember you once said that i dont respect you.
i wonder why you thought that i didnt.
i dont respect you making some decisions.
i believe in you, and you know that.
that's respect.i loved the poem you wrote the other day.
but here's point counter point.I know that this is the person, or can be, or will be.
what i wanted to be.It read:

'The faint glow at the end of the waters
Will be the blush on your face
And the red of a kiss on mine.'

you'd know how i felt about that?
but can you imagine i loved it so?
that i love it more than any three lines i have ever written in months?

George, I don't know if i will be hurting him if become his friend again, and also if i should be his friend. I don't know if he will ever be happy, or even ok with the fact that I will be in love with someone else.
 

Dear George,
Most of the men I like are the ones who don't make it obvious that they like me. Somehow this happens. I don't intend it. The men I like are ones who don't make enough effort, the moves. Right now, I know a guy who I think likes me. But he says I'll call you and doesn't call. Although i know he hasn't fixed when he will call, i expect his call, because I like him and want it to move further. Should i make the moves or just expect him to make effort and then think that the feelings i have for him are mutual?
V.S.
 

George
I am the anonymous with the guy friend. Things have kind of gone back to normal. We see each other every once and a while, but there is still a sexual tension when we do. He hasn't made any advances, and I guess I am scared to. Most of the time when we do see each other, we are with other people, at a BBQ or out with friends. I am glad I didn't lose him as a friend, but I think I am still curious if there is more to what he is thinking. I don't know if the Sexual tension is just me, or if he feels it too. I don't know if it is just a lust, that we are both scared to act on, for the sake of our friendship. Or if we are both just scared. I know it has been months since the one time that anything happened... But I still don't know what to do. If I sit down and talk to him, that could make things even worse... I don't know, I guess I just need to get him alone, and see how we react to each other. If I still feel that sexual tension, then maybe I will just have to ask him what he wants...